The Four Agreements

Good day, wonderful women!

Today, I rediscovered a book my mom once asked me to read.  It's entitled The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. His words are so simple, yet so profound.  Imagine summarizing the way to live life beautifully hassle-free in four sentences.  It's just mind-blowing.  Here's the short version:

BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

DON’T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
Your best is going to change from moment to moment. It will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

Anyway, that's it.  If you can get your hands on a copy of this book, it's worth it.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am getting this book. Sounds great. Thanks for the post! =)

Lucy said...

omg! i read a book of poems from him. i LOVED it, my mom gave it to me.. im so looking for it so i can show it to you.
loved this post!!

Lisey said...

I think my mom has this book... I'll check the shelf right now! If we do have it, this'll be my next read :D

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